You Belong to Me:The Lasting Trauma of Male Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse You Belong to Me Watching the new documentary, "Leaving Neverland," about Wade Robson and James Safechuck revealing their childhood sexual abuse (CSA) at the hands of pop singer Michael Jackson is disturbing and sad. The men in the documentary are brave. One in six [...]
Is listening to a drag queen read a story dangerous for a child? Is listening to a drag queen read a story dangerous for a child? All over the nation 'Drag Queen Storytime' events are taking place at public libraries and have sparked some controversy. Opponents claim they can confuse [...]
'Sides' Proving Sex Without Penetration Is Still Sex 'Sides' Proving Sex Without Penetration Is Still Sex There is a false misconception that penetration is required in order to have sex 'the right way'. This has lead to misinformation and misunderstandings. The truth is many people enjoy sex without penetration. A [...]
Monogamy:It's Not What You Think Monogamy: It's Not What You Think Couples often fight over contracts they've never made.” — Mary Klein, sex therapist One of the phrases we often hear in these chaotic times is “the new normal”—in other words, what was once considered an unquestioned standard has evolved into something [...]
Tough love: is a loved one holding you hostage? Tough Love: Is a loved one holding you hostage? Your friend calls you unexpectedly. Her car has broken down and she hopes you can drive her to and from work until her vehicle is repaired. You are happy to help. Your [...]
Your Relationship Can Overcome Infidelity Your Relationship Can Overcome Infidelity - Dr. Joe Kort Infidelity can be traumatic. Recovering a relationship from an instance of cheating may seem like an uphill battle. Often times the natural inclination is to assail the 'cheater' with harsh words and to comfort the 'victim' [...]
What is Cheating? What is cheating? This is a complex question, and the answer depends on the type of relationship and the individuals involved. In order to properly define cheating a couple must decide what monogamy means to them. Clear lines should be negotiated as to what types of behavior [...]
How can I get my sexual desire back? Is this part of my life over? How can I get my sexual desire back? Just wave the magic wand and the sexual yearnings for your partner will return. If only it were that easy. But, the good news is, your desires [...]
Porn Could Ruin a Relationship. But It Doesn't Have To. Porn Could Ruin a Relationship. But It Doesn't Have To. As Published on PsychologyToday.com: It’s a story I’ve heard many times in my practice: A marriage is going along just fine—until the day a wife discovers that her husband has been watching Internet porn. [...]
The New Macho The New Macho as reflected upon by Dr. Joe Kort This is the opposite of toxic masculinity. He cleans up after himself. He cleans up the planet. He is a role model for young men. He is rigorously honest and fiercely optimistic. He holds himself accountable. He [...]