Male Sexual Fluidity: The New ‘Kid’ on the Block Male Sexual Fluidity For quite a while we have thought of human sexuality as fitting into just three categories: straight, gay, and bisexual — although in some dictatorial regimes the latter two are said not to exist at all! As a [...]
Joe Kort interviewed by Ferndale Friends! Joe Kort interviewed by Ferndale Friends! Ferndale Friends recently spoke with Dr. Joe Kort – a psychotherapist, coach and author specializing in LGBQT sexual and relationship health. He founded his practice in 1985, and his specialties include gay affirmative psychotherapy (emphasizing how being knowledgeable [...]
Grow Your Guru Interview with Dr. Joe Kort Grow Your Guru Interview with Dr. Joe Kort. Couples need two conversations - the relationship conversation and the sexual conversation. If sexual health improves in a relationship, this doesn't mean the relationship's health improves. Couples need to discuss these topics in tandem. Learn more [...]
Every couple can manage the roller coaster of life's challenges: Learn how to sustain a happy, healthy relationship Managing the roller coaster of life's challenges It's the rare couple who claims they don't have a few bumps or bruises from time to time in their relationship. Understanding and anticipating that [...]
You Belong to Me:The Lasting Trauma of Male Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse You Belong to Me Watching the new documentary, "Leaving Neverland," about Wade Robson and James Safechuck revealing their childhood sexual abuse (CSA) at the hands of pop singer Michael Jackson is disturbing and sad. The men in the documentary are brave. One in six [...]
Is listening to a drag queen read a story dangerous for a child? Is listening to a drag queen read a story dangerous for a child? All over the nation 'Drag Queen Storytime' events are taking place at public libraries and have sparked some controversy. Opponents claim they can confuse [...]
'Sides' Proving Sex Without Penetration Is Still Sex 'Sides' Proving Sex Without Penetration Is Still Sex There is a false misconception that penetration is required in order to have sex 'the right way'. This has lead to misinformation and misunderstandings. The truth is many people enjoy sex without penetration. A [...]
Monogamy:It's Not What You Think Monogamy: It's Not What You Think Couples often fight over contracts they've never made.” — Mary Klein, sex therapist One of the phrases we often hear in these chaotic times is “the new normal”—in other words, what was once considered an unquestioned standard has evolved into something [...]
Tough love: is a loved one holding you hostage? Tough Love: Is a loved one holding you hostage? Your friend calls you unexpectedly. Her car has broken down and she hopes you can drive her to and from work until her vehicle is repaired. You are happy to help. Your [...]
Your Relationship Can Overcome Infidelity Your Relationship Can Overcome Infidelity - Dr. Joe Kort Infidelity can be traumatic. Recovering a relationship from an instance of cheating may seem like an uphill battle. Often times the natural inclination is to assail the 'cheater' with harsh words and to comfort the 'victim' [...]