HOCD is real and can cause sexual disorientation In my practice, I sometimes encounter men who are so obsessively worried they may be gay or bisexual that it takes up such a significant amount of their daily life and thoughts and causes them nearly crippling anxiety. Sometimes they truly are gay [...]
The bed is dead … can we bring it back to life? Bed death – when couples stop having sex with each other – is far more common than you may think. An estimated 20 million Americans are living in sexless marriages and it’s not just happening in the US; the trend [...]
You want a threesome… how do you approach the subject? Justin Lehmiller, PhD, a sex therapist, colleague and friend, surveyed more than 4,000 people on their sexual fantasies and found that having a threesome is the most common sexual fantasy among Americans. Ninety five percent of men and 87 percent [...]
Life with a narcissistic parent – it’s time to step away Growing up has its own unique set of challenges. Starting school, making friends, trying out for the football team, dating …. the list goes on and on. You are trying to learn who you are and where you belong [...]
Condom-ing With Confidence: Dr. Joe Kort Shares 5 Condom Tips for Queer Men This article was originally published on hornet.com It’s amazing how many queer men are in need of condom tips. Yes, even guys who have been sexually active for years — even decades — aren’t always aware of [...]
6 Creative Car Sex Positions to Steam Up the Windows This article was originally published on Insider.com Having sex in the car is a great way to ditch the bedroom and spice up your sex life. Whether you're bored of the bedroom or you're out and simply can't wait to [...]
How businesses can create a more authentic and empathetic workplace with John Ball and Lisa Goyette Let’s take a moment to relive those days as children on the playground. Were you bullied, teased, or ridiculed? You probably remember some of those experiences like they happened yesterday. Years [...]
Sexual Excitement and Exploration with Lucie Fielding Unfortunately, we live in a world of either/or, with us or against us, conservative or liberal, for gay rights or against gay rights. In a Smart Sex Smart Love podcast, Lucie Fielding, sex educator, writer and therapist, challenges binary in [...]
The collision of fear, shame and trauma with sexual development and desirewith Galen Fous There is an epidemic … people leading secret lives. It causes psychological and relationship mayhem. Your innate sexuality is your birth right, however, few claim it. In fact, many struggle most of their life searching [...]