The dark side of social media…opinions seem more important than truth
The dark side of social media … opinions seem more important than truth Recently, I started posting videos on TikTok as an outlet for sharing my thoughts on topics such as male sexuality and relationships. In a short time, I picked up an astounding 300,000 followers (and climbing)! At first, [...]
African Americans distrust the mental health system…how can we fix this?
African Americans distrust the mental health system … how can we fix this? “I don’t see you as Black. I just see you as a regular person.” “I’m not sure we need to focus on race or culture to understand your depression.” “Don’t be too sensitive about the racial stuff. I [...]
Are Closeted Folks Fair Game Now?
Are Closeted Folks Fair Game Now?
Myths About Autistic Relationships Must Be Broken
Myths About Autistic Relationships Must Be Broken A neurodiverse relationship can, and does, work. I know from firsthand experience; I married a man on the autism spectrum more than 25 years ago. Our relationship comes with challenges, but what relationship doesn’t? In a recent Smart Sex, Smart Love podcast, I [...]
Tolerating Differences is Tough, But You Can Do It
Tolerating Differences is Tough, But You Can Do It Tolerating differences is tough. Can you see the world through someone else’s eyes? Is there a healthy way of tolerating differences? Are you able to remain close to someone when your differences feel so threatening? Differentiation is a process that we, [...]
Kids watching porn is not the problem
Kids Watching Porn Is Not The Problem Kids watching porn is not the problem The online world has created limitless opportunities for young people to explore pornography. • Approximately 94 percent of kids have viewed porn by the age of 14. The average age of first exposure is 8 to 11. [...]
Bisexuality, Pansexuality, Asexuality and Sexual Fluidity – Do We Really Understand These Terms?
Bisexuality, Pansexuality, Asexuality & Sexual Fluidity – Do We Really Understand These Terms? Bisexuality - pansexuality - asexuality and sexual fluidity, do we really understand these terms? Dr. Mimi Hoang, a nationally recognized psychologist, educator, author and activist specializing in LGBTQ+ and Asian Pacific communities, co-founded three organizations in Los Angeles, [...]