Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Joe, I HAVE BEEN DATING A GUY FOR THE LAST SIX MONTHS AND I'M FALLING IN LOVE. THE PROBLEM IS HE IS STILL MARRIED TO HIS WIFE. THEY STILL LIVE TOGETHER BECAUSE THEY HAVE CHILDREN AND HE DOESN'T PLAN ON MOVING OUT ANYTIME SOON. MY [...]
Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Joe, I am a gay guy and am only attracted to straight men. I want a relationship with another man, but every time I try dating gay guys, I'm instantly turned off because they're usually not masculine enough. I like straight-acting guys, but even knowing [...]
Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Joe, My boyfriend is bothered by my relationship with my mother. She and I are very close, and I consider it to be healthy. My father is not very nice to her so she confides in me and we talk on the phone every day. [...]
Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Joe, My new boyfriend is lovely. We're both in our late 20S and feel as if we're getting into a really emotionally fulfilling relationship. The problem is that while he is relatively sexually inexperienced, having only slept with one guy before me, I've been quite [...]
Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Joe, I've always had an active social life, and having been single for a couple of years, I frequently take a guy home after I've been out. However, I'm so used to meeting guys when I'm drunk, I find that I can't get in the [...]
Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Joe, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of years and always had a fulfilling sex hfe. In the past couple of weeks he's told me he wants to try watersports, and that it has always been a fantasy of his. I'm [...]
Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Joe, I've started seeing a guy recently who I'm really attracted to, and have struck a good rapport with. It is rare that I get on with anyone this well. But he recently confided in me that he is in fact our town's local drag [...]
Dear Joe, I've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months now. We really fancy each other. We're still at that stage where we can't keep our hands off one another. Overall, we're having a great time. However, the problem is that we're both tops. In the past, I've tried being a bottom and really [...]
Dear Joe, I always grew up being quite confident about my body, but as soon as I started being sexually active on the gay scene it became apparent that my penis didn't measure up to the size of most other guys. Not so long ago I went on a couple of great dates with a guy [...]
This month I am focusing on the controversy around sexual addiction. In the psychotherapy field the debate is whether or not this is really an "addiction". Raising the conversation to a new level is clinical psychologist David Ley whose upcoming book "The Myth of Sex Addiction" is being released soon, click here. There is also a [...]