Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Joe, My new boyfriend is lovely. We're both in our late 20S and feel as if we're getting into a really emotionally fulfilling relationship. The problem is that while he is relatively sexually inexperienced, having only slept with one guy before me, I've been quite [...]
Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Joe, I've always had an active social life, and having been single for a couple of years, I frequently take a guy home after I've been out. However, I'm so used to meeting guys when I'm drunk, I find that I can't get in the [...]
Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Joe, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of years and always had a fulfilling sex hfe. In the past couple of weeks he's told me he wants to try watersports, and that it has always been a fantasy of his. I'm [...]
Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Joe, I've started seeing a guy recently who I'm really attracted to, and have struck a good rapport with. It is rare that I get on with anyone this well. But he recently confided in me that he is in fact our town's local drag [...]
Dear Joe, I've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months now. We really fancy each other. We're still at that stage where we can't keep our hands off one another. Overall, we're having a great time. However, the problem is that we're both tops. In the past, I've tried being a bottom and really [...]
Dear Joe, I always grew up being quite confident about my body, but as soon as I started being sexually active on the gay scene it became apparent that my penis didn't measure up to the size of most other guys. Not so long ago I went on a couple of great dates with a guy [...]
This month I am focusing on the controversy around sexual addiction. In the psychotherapy field the debate is whether or not this is really an "addiction". Raising the conversation to a new level is clinical psychologist David Ley whose upcoming book "The Myth of Sex Addiction" is being released soon, click here. There is also a [...]
Joe Kort, Ph,D, writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK Dear Attitude, I have always had an active sex life. Throughout my 20's, I was proud never to end an evening without having picked someone up. Apps such as Grindr have only made this easier, but I find myself continually scouring the internet for any encounter [...]
Dear Attitude, I'm in a long-term relationship with a man I'm absolutely crazy about but I have a problem in that I keep cheating on him. I never mean to do it and always feel dreadful afterwards. I always vow I'll never play away again, so I've never told my partner. I'm terrified of hurting him [...]
Dear Attitude, I’d really like to find a boyfriend but I’m not into having guys go down on me. I know it’s kind of weird but I just don’t like it. Every man I’ve ever had sex with seems to want that more than anything else and I have started to feel insecure about it. I [...]