Let’s talk about queer I still remember the childhood bullying, teasing and “queer” name calling I endured growing up. Queer was considered a negative slur against the LGB community. It’s 30 years later, I am 62 years old, and I still will not use that term to describe me. I [...]

Teenage girls can stop the struggle of internalizing emotions Another deadly school shooting! This time, it was a 15-year-old girl from a private Christian school in Madison, Wisconsin. She killed a student and a staff member, injured six others and died of a self-inflicted gunshot wound. Preliminary police reports say the motive [...]

Still feeling helpless and hopeless over election results? More than 300 million Americans were invested in the 2024 presidential election results. From billionaires to your next door neighbor, it seemed that everyone tightly held on to their beliefs, sometimes speaking peacefully and other times shouting angrily. Even before voting started, [...]

Understanding ethical non-monogamy Did you know that 50 percent of gay men are in open relationships? I support all relationships, even open relationships. I’ve been talking a lot about this subject on TikTok, and the response surprisingly has been overwhelming! I’m receiving many positive comments, however, the opposing ones – [...]

Your child comes out as LGBTQ … what should you do? If your child comes out as LGBTQ, what are you going to say? How should you respond? This is a question I often ask parents, and they often stumble on what to do. Most parents assume they are raising [...]

It’s healthy to explore the erotic depths of your relationship We often are attracted to people wildly different from us. I find myself saying this regularly in therapy sessions to clients struggling in their relationship, and sometimes in the bedroom. One person may crave “unusual” erotic activities that make their [...]