Does London have a homophobia problem within the gay community? I was interviewed for this article: Does London have a homophobia problem within the gay community? ‘Gay men are taught from a young age that they are not manly enough, inferior and wrong. There’s a tendency to become hyper-masculinised and [...]
New York Times refers to Dr. Kort as a “renegade” of couples therapy NYTimes: First Comes Sex Talk With These Renegades of Couples Therapy These renegades of couples therapy — such as Suzanne Iasenza, Margie Nichols, Jean Malpas, Marty Klein, Joe Kort, Arlene Lev, Marta Meana and Tammy Nelson — [...]
Sex Q&A: Does Bottoming Have To Hurt? Does Bottoming Have To Hurt? Hey BuzzFeed, First of all, I would like to thank you for all you do. You’re amazing, and I love it all. Can’t start my day without spending some time on BuzzFeed. I am a gay 21-year-old male, [...]
Guys on the 'Side': Looking Beyond Gay Tops and Bottoms Gay men are constantly referring to and defining themselves as "tops" or "bottoms." When they consider dating or simply hooking up, gay men typically ask the other guy whether he's a top, a bottom or "versatile." It's important to find [...]
How Are We To Talk About the Complexity of Bisexuality? Talk About the Complexity of Bisexuality as reflected upon by Dr. Joe Kort A man is bisexual if he feels a persistent sexual and/or romantic attraction to both men and women. A man can seek sex with men but not be [...]
span class="s1" style="color: #aad2fa;">Male Sexual Fluidity "Is my husband gay?" is a question women ask me on a regular basis. This question comes from having either found gay porn on the computer or discovered that he has hooked up with other men. You would think that the answer is as simple [...]
Mixed Orientation Marriages: The New Mixed Marriage When we think of a "mixed marriage," we typically imagine two individuals of different races or religions. But the mixed-orientation marriage -- with one straight spouse and one who's gay or lesbian -- is just as real, though far more likely to operate [...]
Out-Of-Control Sexual Behavior is the new Sexual Addiction There is an excellent book describing some of the negative effects of labeling someone a sex addict. It is written by David Ley titled, The Myth of Sex Addiction . The new term being used is Out of Control Sexual Behaviors (OCSB). Leading the way in [...]
Today's Younger Couples Are Embracing Open Relationships When it comes to open relationships, judgments are changing. Historically, it was believed, and still is, that if a couple was open to bringing in others for sex, that was the beginning of the end for their relationship. Also the thought of a [...]
Dear Attitude, I was having sex with my boyfriend one night when he drunkenly suggested getting a third party in for a threesome – and I went bananas. I’ve always made it clear that I would never, ever consider it. I know that it often splits relationships up, and I just find it a bit degrading [...]