Masturbating without sex toys

Let’s put aside the toys for awhile and explore your erogenous zones manually. Touching yourself with your hands can bring explosive pleasure you may have been neglecting. Learn about your body, what feels good, what excites you, and what turns you on.

Begin by setting the mood. Create a relaxing, soothing and inviting atmosphere. Listen to seductive music, watch some porn on TV, dim the lights, light some candles, slip into something that makes you feel sexy. Start learning how to seduce yourself.

Now that you’ve set the mood, begin exploring your body all over. Instead of starting with the genitals, move your hands around your body to see where and how you get aroused. You probably will find erogenous zones you never had explored before. Touch two places at once – your mouth and your nipples, or your neck and your inner thighs. Keep touching and teasing yourself before you land on the most sensitive erogenous areas. When you decide you want to start focusing on your genitals, do it for a short time and then move on to another area. Slide your hands down your legs, and then back to your genitals. Suck your fingers and touch your nipples, touch your nipples and your genitals. You will find amazing pleasure all over your body.

When exploring the most sensitive spots – the clitoris has more than 8,000 nerve endings and the penis has 4,000 – try indirect stimulation first. Touch the areas around these erogenous zones slowly and then quickly and feel the sensation building with indirect stimulation.

And of course, you always can go for direct stimulation with your penis and clitoris. Use your fingertips, or the palm of your hand, rub in a wide circle, or up and down, squeeze, stroke. You can have each hand in two different places for even more intense stimulation. Experiment, experiment, experiment. Each time may bring a whole new pleasurable feeling.

Mix up positions. Stand up, sit down, lie on your back or your stomach, grab a mirror and watch. Try different positions and see what happens.

Just as you mix up positions, change up locations. Instead of the bed, try the couch, the bathtub, shower and even your car (but in a secluded, private place).

Remember to keep the lube handy. Solo sex can be incredibly exciting when applying a Trojan lubricant. Trojan makes a variety of brands to fit your variety of desires. Trojan H20 lubes hold 1,000 times their weight in moisture for advanced lubrication; Trojan Riviera, a silicone-based lubricant, is designed for fun in the water; and Trojan Arouses & Intensifies are designed for the adventurous. Trojan lubes can take your sexual pleasure to new heights. The wetter you get, the better you will feel.

Do what makes you feel good – with or without sex toys. You may find the journey takes longer, but what a journey it can be!