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10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Find Real Love

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Would the small gay boy you once were look up to the gay man you have become in your relationships? This is the question Joe Kort will help you answer in this book based on his widely successful first book, 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives. In that book Dr. Kort helps gay men develop a healthy, affirming relationship with their gay identity, and in this book he continues the conversation by exploring the topics of love and intimacy. Most people think that you cannot enjoy a satisfying relationship until you first get yourself healthy. Dr. Kort disagrees. Dating and getting into relationships are what help make you healthy. Relationships bring up the unfinished business from your past, both as children and as adults in relationships. 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Find Real Love explores your relationship to yourself as a man and how that was impacted by the negative messages given to gay children about not being the "right" type of male. You will also discover how your relationship with your mother and father impacts your success in finding love and how, in fact, you are drawn to familiar love. Not knowing this information can lead you to walk away from the relationship of your dreams.

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  • Joe Kort’s 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Find Real Love  is a brave, intelligent, rich book. It invites and enables the reader to explore the knottier archetypal forces at work in all of us which make sex and love the exasperating joys they can be. If you want to think more productively not only about your love life, but the deeper meaning of your life as a gay man, read this book.

    -Guy Kettelhack, Dancing Around the Volcano
  • Once again, Joe Kort has emerged as our trusted guide in his wise new book 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Find Real Love . In it, he condenses years of research as a gay man, therapist, and personal growth workshop leader and provides trustworthy signposts to follow as we make our own journeys toward happiness and intimacy with ourselves and others. I found myself repeatedly saying “yes” to his observations and upon finishing the book, immediately wrote to two friends for whom I thought it was perfect. If you feel you’d like a little help in understanding what stops us from, and what would help us in experiencing emotional and sexual health as gay men, I recommend you give it a try.

    -Brian McNaught

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